Community
Foster carers share powerful breakthrough moments
PEMBROKESHIRE foster carers have spoken about the small but powerful moments that show children in their care are beginning to feel safe, supported and able to trust again.
The comments have been shared as part of Foster Care Fortnight, the UK’s largest annual campaign to raise awareness of fostering, which runs from Monday, May 11 to Sunday, May 24.
This year’s theme, This is Fostering, focuses on the real experiences of foster carers and the vital role they play in helping children recover from trauma.
For many children who enter care, trauma can lead to anxiety, emotional shutdown, intense reactions, difficulties with boundaries, or problems following rules.
A national survey commissioned by Foster Wales found that around 80% of carers questioned had supported children showing behaviour of this kind.
However, half of those surveyed said they had seen a meaningful breakthrough within the first six months.
These moments can be simple, such as a child laughing, talking about their day, asking to watch a film, or opening up about something that has happened to them.
But for foster carers, they can mean much more. They are often signs that a child is beginning to feel safe, loved and supported.
Almost all carers questioned, 93%, said that with experience, support and professional guidance, they now feel confident responding to trauma-related behaviour.
Pembrokeshire foster carer Lynda, who has been fostering for just over a year, said: “In the beginning, I struggled with my confidence. The child pushed boundaries constantly, fought every option and often wasn’t living in reality. It was difficult to know whether what I was doing was making any difference at all.
“I made it clear through my actions that no matter what happened, I would always be there for them. I praised positive behaviour, set clear boundaries and stuck to them, always explaining why those boundaries were there, particularly around safety. I learned to wait until we were both calm before talking things through.
“The moment that really showed me things were beginning to change was when she opened up about her past and the trauma she had been through. We cried together and hugged. That was the moment I knew she felt safe enough to trust me.
“When you realise you’ve made that connection, it’s the best feeling in the world. Every child wants to feel loved and safe, and once that starts to happen, the rewards are huge.”
Pembrokeshire County Council’s Head of Children’s Services, Chris Frey-Davies said: “Foster carers across Pembrokeshire provide stability, care and understanding to children who have often experienced difficult and traumatic circumstances.
“This survey highlights the importance of local support, training and guidance in helping carers respond confidently to children’s needs over time. The breakthrough moments described by carers, while often small, show that children are beginning to feel safe and supported.
“At Foster Wales Pembrokeshire, we remain committed to supporting our foster carers throughout their fostering journey, ensuring they have access to the help they need to make a lasting difference.”
In Wales, there are 7,200 children in care. Of these, 4,884 live with foster families, supported by 3,538 foster carers.
Foster Wales is the national network of not-for-profit local authority fostering services in Wales.
Anyone interested in becoming a foster carer can find out more at fosterwales.gov.wales.
This Foster Care Fortnight, the local Foster Wales team will be at Tenby Leisure Centre on May 11 from 11:00am to 5:00pm; Haverfordwest Leisure Centre on May 12 from 10:30am to 1:00pm; Haverfordwest Library on May 12 from 3:00pm to 4:30pm; Milford Haven Library on May 14 from 10:00am to 1:00pm; Milford Haven Leisure Centre on May 14 from 3:00pm to 6:00pm; Tenby Leisure Centre on May 18 from 11:00am to 5:00pm; Haverfordwest Leisure Centre on May 21 from 10:30am to 2:00pm; and Fun in the Park at Pembroke Dock Memorial Park from 11:00am to 7:00pm.
Community
Carew Castle volunteers honoured with invitation to King’s Garden Party
A GROUP of volunteers who have spent the past five years helping to care for one of Pembrokeshire’s most iconic sites have been honoured with an invitation to Buckingham Palace.
Five members of Carew Castle’s Grounds and Site Maintenance Volunteer group attended one of this year’s King’s Garden Parties in early May, after the group was nominated in recognition of its outstanding voluntary work.
David Clarke, Helen Clarke, Chris Williams, Lorna Alexander and Claire Phillips represented the nine-strong volunteer group at the Garden Party, which was attended by members of the Royal Family including King Charles, Queen Camilla, Princess Anne, Prince Edward and Sophie, Duchess of Edinburgh.
The group gives one day each week to Carew Castle, helping to look after the Scheduled Ancient Monument, its grounds and the associated Tidal Mill,
Over the past five years, their work has ranged from conservation and biodiversity projects to improving public access, refurbishing historic milling equipment and supporting the wider care of the Castle’s historic landscape.
This work has helped extend the visitor season at Carew, bringing more people to the site outside the traditional summer months and supporting longer, employment opportunities in a seasonal tourism setting.
Daisy Hughes, Manager of Carew Castle, said: “Our wonderful volunteers turn up week after week in all weathers, giving their time, skills and energy to help care for a place that means so much to Pembrokeshire.
“So much of what they do happens quietly, behind the scenes, but visitors see the results everywhere, from the grounds and access improvements to the events and seasonal programmes that bring the Castle to life.
“We were thrilled that members of the group were invited to Buckingham Palace. It was a very special recognition of their dedication, and richly deserved.”
The King’s Garden Parties are held each year to recognise people who have made significant contributions to public service, community life and voluntary work.
Further information about visiting Carew Castle and its summer events programme can be found at www.carewcastle.com.
Community
Carers charity marks Carers Week with call for stronger support
A WEST WALES carers charity has marked Carers Week 2026 by calling for stronger, more inclusive communities for unpaid carers across Carmarthenshire, Pembrokeshire and Ceredigion.
Carers Trust Crossroads West Wales said this year’s Carers Week theme, “building carer-friendly communities”, highlights the need for carers to be better understood, valued and supported.
The charity said small changes could make a major difference, including employers offering greater flexibility to staff with caring responsibilities, and GPs and pharmacies doing more to identify and support unpaid carers.
SUPPORTING LOCAL CARERS
During Carers Week, the organisation has delivered a range of activities across West Wales, including a guided walk at the National Botanic Garden of Wales, a beach barbecue, wellbeing walks at Dinefwr Castle, pamper days, Money MOTs and other support sessions.
The activities were aimed at giving unpaid carers a chance to take a break, meet others in similar circumstances, and find out more about the support available locally.
One local carer support service said: “We need carer-friendly communities to support carers, help them understand that they are cared for themselves, and ensure they feel part of the world around them.”
‘CARERS ARE NOT ALONE’
Andrew Fewtrell Smith, Carer Support Services Manager at Carers Trust Crossroads West Wales, said: “Unpaid carers are at the heart of our communities, often providing vital care and support without recognition or adequate support themselves.
“During Carers Week, we want to celebrate their contribution, raise awareness of the challenges they face, and remind carers that they are not alone.
“At Carers Trust Crossroads West Wales, we are committed to building more carer-friendly communities across West Wales, where carers of all ages feel valued, listened to and able to access the support, understanding and opportunities they need.”
Alexandra Roberts, Director of Network and Innovation at Carers Trust, said local organisations were making a real difference to carers’ lives every day.
She said: “From creating safe spaces to connect, to offering practical advice and essential support, the work of local carer organisations shows what’s possible when communities come together.
“Building carer-friendly communities starts with action and investment at a local level, and it’s inspiring to see our movement of local partners leading the way during this year’s Carers Week.”
Carers Trust Crossroads West Wales is part of a network of more than 130 local support centres for carers across England, Scotland and Wales.
More information is available at www.ctcww.org.uk/events/carers-week/ and www.carers.org/help-for-carers/carer-services-near-you.
Charity
Young fundraiser donated 12 inches of hair to help children with cancer
A GENEROUS eight-year-old girl showed incredible kindness and determination when she donated 12 inches of her hair to help children affected by cancer.
The hair-cutting event took place at the Cross Inn, Broadmoor, where family, friends and members of the local community gathered to support her fundraising efforts. Her donated hair will be used to make wigs for children who have lost their hair during cancer treatment.
Alongside the hair donation, the young fundraiser worked hard to raise £2500 for the charity, with local businesses and residents contributing donations, vouchers and prizes to support the cause. The event helped raise valuable funds while also shining a spotlight on the important work carried out by charities supporting children and families facing cancer.
Her selfless act inspired many people in the community and helped raise awareness of the challenges experienced by young cancer patients. Supporters praised her bravery and generosity, recognising the difference her donation and fundraising efforts will make to children in need.
The event proved to be a wonderful success, demonstrating how one young person’s compassion can bring a community together and make a meaningful impact on the lives of others.
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