News
Megan’s heartbroken mother hits out at police over lack of support
AN EMOTIVE post on social media by the mother of Megan Evans, the 14-year-old Milford Haven schoolgirl who took her own life last month, has received hundreds of reactions within hours of publication.
The scathing account by the heartbroken mother regarding the lack of support she has received from both police and Megan’s school has received a wave of reaction on Facebook.
In an emotional post Nicola Harteveld said: “Contrary to what was reported regarding specialist officers supporting us a family, I should like to put the record straight for two reasons.
“Firstly I am utterly devastated and disappointed, that we as a family are left to cope alone after suffering the ultimate tragedy of losing Megan and secondly to stop any other family in the future having to go through what we are going through.
“I have left it a month to see what support will transpire – but am still left wondering. Our grief today is still as raw as the moment we found out our beautiful Megan was gone, yet we still stand alone.
“We have not had contact with a police officer regarding the investigation since early hours of 8th February and am still waiting to hear about counselling for ourselves & our children.
“If it wasn’t for me personally contacting my GP ten days later asking for advice, who then promptly arranged specialist support for the children, I don’t know where we would be.
“Then to add insult to injury, we have had no contact from Megan’s school since her death whatsoever, despite numerous attempts on our behalf to collect personal items & work of hers at the school. This has resulted in us resorting to sending a solicitors letter, just so we can collect these precious things.
“We are left hurt and dismayed at the total lack of support & compassion shown by both parties. Dyfed-Powys Police and Milford Haven School bow your heads in shame.
“We have a long road ahead of us but we will fight for Megan and campaign to ensure changes are implemented so others don’t suffer this travesty. If it wasn’t for our fine community and members of the public with their kind gestures and messages of support. We’re not sure we would have come as far as we have today
Ms Harteveld ended the post by saying: “Yet again our services have let us down.”
The Herald has contacted Pembrokeshire County Council on behalf of Milford Haven School and Dyfed-Powys Police for a comment.
There were over 120 comments from local people on Facebook, and over 350 reactions within hours of Wednesday night’s post.
A Dyfed-Powys Police spokesperson said: “Dyfed-Powys Police is continuing to conduct an investigation on behalf of HM Coroner for Pembrokeshire into the tragic sudden death of 14-year-old
, from Milford Haven.“The force initially deployed a specialist family liaison officer to work with and support the family. A senior detective officer has been in contact with the family and will be making further contact with them today to discuss any further concerns they may have.
“Our thoughts and deepest sympathies remain firmly with the family. While the investigation is still underway we would urge people not to speculate on the circumstances surrounding Megan’s death. We wish to reassure the community that this matter is being taken very seriously, and we are following-up all possible lines of enquiry to establish a picture of what happened in the lead-up to Megan’s death. Anyone with any information that may assist the enquiry is asked to contact Milford Haven CID.”
A spokesman for Pembrokeshire County Council told the Herald: “As the local education authority, we strongly refute allegations of a lack of support from the school for Megan’s family.
“Support, including counselling, has been offered to the family on several occasions but has been repeatedly declined.
“The family chose a local headteacher to act as a liaison officer between themselves and the school.
“The liaison officer has returned all of Megan’s artwork. This was done promptly following a request from the family.
“The only items which belong to Megan and which remain in school are her exercise books.
“Arrangements are in hand to return these to the family together with a Book of Condolence prepared by the school.
Charity
Sue Ryder calls on public to donate unwanted Christmas gifts
NATIONAL palliative care and bereavement charity Sue Ryder is urging the public to support its end-of-life care and grief services by donating unwanted Christmas gifts.
Whether it’s a scarf that’s not your colour, a gadget you don’t need, or a novelty item gathering dust, Sue Ryder hopes people will consider donating these items to their local charity shop.
Not only will this help declutter homes after the festive season, but it will also ensure those facing bereavement or a terminal illness in the New Year can access vital support.
To donate, people can drop goods off at their nearest Sue Ryder shop. For larger items such as furniture, free collections can be arranged through the charity’s website.
Sue Ryder operates almost 400 shops across the UK in high streets, retail parks, and shopping centres, with proceeds funding hospices, palliative care hubs, and bereavement services.
Anthony Barlow, Senior Regional Manager at Sue Ryder, said: “Christmas is a wonderful time for exchanging gifts, but the reality is that many of us end up with items we don’t need. If you’re still in the gift-giving spirit and want to declutter, you can regift unwanted presents to Sue Ryder.
“By donating, you’ll not only help the environment but also support people during some of the most challenging moments of their lives—all while creating space for a fresh start in 2025.
“This New Year, we’re welcoming quality clothes, household goods, electricals, books, toys, accessories, and collectibles.”
Donations can be made at local Sue Ryder shops or via sueryder.org/shop.
Crime
Motorist, 27, bailed after fatal Carmarthenshire hit-and-run collision
OFFICERS are continuing to investigate a fatal road traffic collision that occurred in Llanpumsaint on Monday (December 23), which claimed the life of 38-year-old Aaron Jones.
A 27-year-old man was arrested on suspicion of causing death by dangerous driving, failing to stop for a collision, and failing to report a collision. He has since been released on bail with conditions while serious collision investigation and CSI teams continue their enquiries.
The collision happened near Caer Salem Baptist Chapel between 6:45pm and 7:45pm while Aaron was walking his dog. Police believe the vehicle involved was travelling northbound through the village at the time.
Specially trained officers continue to support Aaron’s family, who have requested privacy during this difficult time.
A spokesperson for Dyfed-Powys Police said: “Our investigation into this tragic incident remains ongoing, and we are continuing to appeal to anyone who may have dashcam footage, CCTV, or doorbell camera recordings from the area around the time of the collision to come forward.”
The road has since reopened, but police presence in the area remains while enquiries continue.
Anyone with information is urged to contact Dyfed-Powys Police using the details provided in the comments.
Charity
Over 1,100 festive bathers enjoy Tenby’s famous Boxing Day Swim
A RECORD-BREAKING number of 1,150 festive bathers have had a splashing time in the Tenby Boxing Day Swim this morning.
The fancy dress theme of Superheroes – in tribute to the RNLI in its 200th anniversary year – saw Batman, The Incredibles, Wonderwoman and a whole crew of emergency services dashing into the chilly water of Tenby’s North Beach.
RNLI mascot Stormy Stan was there amongst the huge crowds to cheer the brave bathers on their way.
The swim will be one to remember forever for one duo of dippers as they got engaged following a surprise proposal on the sand.
Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu coach Philip Frith, 34, made one of his best-ever moves when he popped the question to his girlfriend, former professional dancer Victoria Tansey, 34, who is originally from Hakin.
Said swim chairman Sam Skyrme-Blackhall: “”Well, we said ‘come to the Tenby Boxing Day Swim and take the plunge’ but we weren’t expecting that! Congratulations to the happy couple”.
The swim has raised hundreds of thousands of pounds for charities and good causes in its 52-year history, and this yeae’s event will see Tenby RNLI as the main beneficiary.
Town mayor Dai Morgan said: ”It’s great to see so many people from here, and for such a good cause. I just love it down on the beach on Boxing Day. The swim is such a fantastic tradition.”
The mayor’s daughter, 18-year-old Erin Morgan, who is Tenby’s town crier, gave a special ‘cry’ to welcome the swim.
Swim chairman Sam supervised 10-year-old Sam Fecci as he fired the swim’s starting pistol – a duty usually carried out by his dad, Stuart, who was not well enough to attend.
Festive tunes and a lively commentary from DJ Steve Briers ramped up the atmosphere on the beach and swimmers emerged from the sea to be presented with commemorative medals and warm up with hot soup donated by the Giltar Hotel and served up by Tenby and District Lions.
‘Taking the plunge’ at a festive swim in Wales this morning meant more than just a dip in the sea for one happy couple.
As hundreds of Boxing Day bathers at the legendary event in Tenby dashed for the water, a magical moment was happening between Victoria Tansey and Philip Frith.
Philip, 34, went down on one knee on the sand and asked Victoria, 37, to marry him.
Fortunately, she said an ecstatic ‘yes’ to the carefully-planned proposal, which saw the couple’s special song Ocean Eyes y Billie Eilish sound out over the beach as the newly-engaged couple celebrated with a splash in the sea.
As a former Royal Marine Philip – who is now a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu coach – has faced some scary situations in his life but the Boxing Day proposal was up there with the most nail-biting.
“I’ve been so nervous/special moment.
Victoria, originally from Hakin, Milford Haven in Pembrokeshire, worked as a professional dancer – appearing on the X Factor, Britain’s Got Talent and Pineapple Dance Studio: Survival of the Fittest -and before setting up her own entertainment agency.
Although now living in Guildford with Philip, she has always loved returning to her Pembrokeshire roots
“When we first met, Victoria couldn’t wait to show me all around Pembrokeshire and we have made the trip as often as work would allow us, to visit her family, go beach hopping and take in the breathtaking scenery,” said Philip.
“I absolutely love sea swimming, I believe that it is so worthwhile for your body and mind, however Victoria has never been one to enjoy the cold!
“So, on our first Christmas together as a couple, Victoria surprised me by taking me to Tenby for the Boxing Day Swim – it’s honestly one of my most fond memories from the start of our relationship!
“I wanted to return her the favour of surprising her by proposing to her at this year’s swim.”
Victoria’s mum and her childhood best friend , Sean Griffiths – who she set up Milford Haven’s Unison Dance Group with in 2004 –were on the beach to watch the proposal, with Sean bringing along the engagement ring in his pocket to fellow swimmers crowded round to congratulate Victoria and Philip, and swim chairman Sam Skyrme-Blackhall laughed: “Well, we said ‘come to the Tenby Boxing Day Swim and take the plunge’ but we weren’t expecting that! Congratulations to the happy couple”.
Images: Gareth Davies Photography Tenby
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