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Loneliness crisis among Welsh parents: highlighted by new survey

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2 months ago

September 24, 2024

A NEW survey commissioned by Home-Start UK, a leading family support charity, has revealed the alarming scale of loneliness experienced by parents in Wales. According to the findings, nearly four out of five parents (77%) report feeling lonely or isolated, highlighting an urgent need for support to address the issue.

The survey, conducted by YouGov as part of a UK-wide study, sheds light on the isolation many parents and carers face during crucial stages of their children’s development. The data indicates that social isolation is having a profound impact on parents, with consequences for both their mental health and their children’s wellbeing.

Key findings

One of the survey’s most striking findings is the prevalence of isolation among parents. Almost one in five (18%) say they rarely or never have meaningful contact with another adult outside their household, underscoring the extent of their isolation. Young parents are particularly vulnerable, with 28% of those aged 18-24 admitting they always or often feel lonely, compared to just 16% of parents aged 45-54.

Employment also plays a key role in shaping experiences of loneliness. The survey found that unemployed parents are three times more likely to experience loneliness than those in work (48% vs. 16%). Even among those who are not formally employed, such as stay-at-home parents, the rate of loneliness remains worryingly high at 36%.

The findings challenge common assumptions that men are less affected by loneliness. Fathers are just as likely as mothers to say they lack meaningful adult interactions (17% vs. 19%) and report experiencing frequent feelings of loneliness (18% vs. 20%).

Financial strains are compounding the issue, with families on lower incomes being disproportionately affected. Nearly a quarter (24%) of those from lower-income households report feeling lonely, compared to 15% from higher-income groups. The rising cost of living, cited by 48% of respondents, was the leading factor contributing to feelings of isolation, followed by mental health concerns at 43%.

Home-Start Cymru calls for action

In response to the survey’s findings, Home-Start Cymru, which provides vital support to families across Wales, is calling for increased volunteer numbers and donations. The charity is also urging parents to seek help, as they strive to expand their services to meet the growing demand.

Jayne Drummond, CEO of Home-Start Cymru, highlighted the charity’s success in supporting 1,250 families and 2,000 children over the past year, an increase of 4%. She noted that while stress levels remained steady, Home-Start Cymru’s interventions ensured families were able to maintain their resilience, despite the rising pressures of everyday life.

“We’ve seen an 8% rise in children’s mental health struggles, yet thanks to our support, these families have not seen a decline in their ability to cope. This underscores our vital role in helping them through these difficult times,” Drummond said.

Peter Grigg, Chief Executive of Home-Start UK, echoed these sentiments. “This survey paints a painful picture of a loneliness crisis in parenthood. Despite being more digitally connected than ever, too many parents are missing meaningful connections with other adults,” he said. Grigg stressed the importance of emotional support for parents, stating, “Parents and carers are the most important factor in a child’s development, so it’s crucial we provide compassionate communities of support during the critical early years.”

Impact of isolation and financial pressures

The survey also delved into the impact of financial pressures on family life. As inflation drives up the cost of essentials, many parents are forced to cut back on social activities, exacerbating their isolation. This issue is particularly severe for families with younger children, where distance from extended family and friends is often cited as a contributing factor to feelings of loneliness.

In response, Home-Start Cymru has joined a new national campaign titled “We answer the cries you don’t hear.” The initiative aims to raise awareness of the challenges parents face, from maternal mental health to the impact of the cost of living. As part of the campaign, three short films have been released to highlight these issues and encourage communities to offer more support to struggling families.

One poignant example of the charity’s impact comes from Zainab, a mother who fled Afghanistan and settled in Swansea after escaping the Taliban. Isolated as a new mother, Zainab’s situation improved dramatically after being referred to Home-Start Cymru by a health visitor. With the help of a volunteer, she learned English, gained confidence, and became more integrated into her local community. Zainab was so inspired by the support she received that she later became a volunteer herself, helping other families in need.

Her story is just one example of how Home-Start Cymru is making a tangible difference in the lives of families across Wales, offering not just practical assistance but a lifeline of human connection in a time of crisis.

As the cost of living continues to rise and mental health challenges mount, the charity’s call for greater community involvement and government support has never been more urgent. With more volunteers and donations, Home-Start Cymru hopes to continue its vital work, ensuring no parent has to face the loneliness of parenthood alone.

Community

Spotlight shines on County’s young people at annual awards

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16 mins ago

November 30, 2024

Tom Sinclair

The FOURTH Pembrokeshire Spotlight Awards celebrating children and young people who achieve exceptional things and make a real difference was held recently.

The Awards – a collaboration between Pembrokeshire Youth, The Children and Young People’s Rights Office and Children’s Services – took place on 22nd November at the Merlin Theatre, Pembrokeshire College and celebrated the achievements of Pembrokeshire’s young people.

A huge well done to the young people from Pembrokeshire Youth Bank, who were involved in the whole process, from conception, to planning, to being involved on the night of the awards.

This was truly an event ‘For Young People, By Young People.’

Sponsorship from BAM Nuttall and Pure West Radio enabled the awards to go ahead this year and helped make it a memorable evening.

The event saw some amazing achievements noted and celebrated and the winners and runners up are as follows:

Achieving positive change: The Edge Quiet Hour (winner), Craig Thompson and Samantha Barton (runners up).

Arts Award: Lleucu-Haf Thomas (winner), FADDS Youth Theatre and Tomos Roberts (runners up).

Eco Champion Award: Senedd Gwyrdd at Ysgol Penrhyn Dewi (winner).

Education Award: Megan Thomas (winner), Carla Briskham (runner up).

Fundraising Award: Ellie Neville (winner), George Bromwich and Molly Venables (runners up).

Making a difference in the community: Eirlys Lloyd-Phillips (winner), Pembroke Family of Schools – Social Action Project, We Know… Our Journey Group, Neyland Youth Club Group (runners up).

Most inspiring story: Aaron Briskham (winner), Aimee Hawkings and Molly Evans (runners up).

Music Award: Carys Wood + Alice Thomas (winners), Amy Evans and Iestyn Barrellie (runners up).

Sport Award: Harley and Liam Franz (winners), Caiden Meacham and Ava Tyrie (runners up).

Voice Award: Tegan Skyrme (winner), Niamh Jones, Mya-Rose John (runners up).

Young Leader / Peer Mentoring Award: Daniella Loveridge / Chloe Harries (winners), Tomos Padel, Brogan Collins and The Point (runners up).

The final award of the night was the special ‘Spotlight Award’, given to a single young person for a particularly important contribution or achievement. For 2024 this award was given to Freya Terry.

Here’s Freya’s inspiring nomination:

Freya has struggled with her mental health since she was 11. She has had some great support from the Amethyst Project and then more recently adult mental health services. She has come out of that stronger and decided to do a voyage solo around the UK and Ireland to raise awareness of mental health in young people – attempting to inspire people to talk about their mental health so that they can get some support, rather than bottle it all up in fear and shame.

She has given talks to local Pembrokeshire youth groups, as well as talking to others as she makes her way around the country which have been really well received. She has gained so much confidence from this venture and has attracted many followers (www.she-sails.co.uk)

Boat problems left her lost at sea for many hours and then a freak wave that tossed her across the boat resulting in her getting concussion and having to call the coastguard. But this didn’t stop her, as soon as she recovered, she got going again and is making great progress.

Director of Education Steven Richards-Downes presented the overall Spotlight Award and said: “Everyone nominated in these Spotlight Awards are a real inspiration to their peers and the wider community. It was an honour to present the overall award for Freya, her story demonstrates a real resilience and commitment to give something back to society while overcoming her own struggles.”

Pembrokeshire County Council Chairman Cllr Steve Alderman said: “It is fantastic to see our young people being celebrated for the exceptional things they have achieved and the difference they make in their communities.”

Cabinet Member for Social Care & Safeguarding Cllr Tessa Hodgson added: “Sometimes young people are not given the credit they deserve and it is fantastic that this event is dedicated to celebrating the wonderful things they can achieve.”

The award ceremony was followed by refreshments and entertainment including an inflatable assault course, circus skills, photo booth as well as candyfloss and popcorn in the foyer of the college.

Special thanks also go to those who attended the event to present the young people with the awards as well as to those who took the time to nominate a young person or group.

Sincere thanks also to Dylan Harwood who performed one of his original songs; Charlie Royal, Polly Thomas, Josh Roberts and the rest of the team at Pembrokeshire College for hosting this event; Nadine Farmer, Bethany Roberts, Nicky Edwards and Angie Moore for their assistance in organising this event and to the young people from Pembrokeshire Youth Bank for their hard work.

More pictures are available on the Children and Young People’s Rights Office Facebook page.

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Pembroke lantern parade lights up the town

Published

3 hours ago

November 30, 2024

Tom Sinclair

PEMBROKE’S Lantern Parade lit up the night on the Commons this evening, bringing the community together for a magical celebration of creativity and togetherness. Hosted by the Pembroke Town Team, the event showcased the vibrant spirit of the town, with lanterns crafted by locals under the expert guidance of Sand Palace Arts.

Leading the way was Brig Y Don, setting the tone for a parade filled with glowing woodland creatures and majestic swans, enchanting all who joined. Attendees were invited to the Tanyard Project to begin their illuminated journey around Pembroke, culminating at The Foundry House, where a spectacular fire display awaited.

Hot food, drinks, and festive music added to the warm atmosphere, as residents gathered to chase away the winter blues. The wishing tree, a highlight of the evening, offered a moment of reflection and hope, as attendees hung their Christmas wishes before heading home.

Thanks to funding from the MHPA Community Fund, UK Government, and Pembrokeshire Pride, the much-loved Lantern Parade was brought to life once more. This year’s event built on the success of previous parades, showcasing the continued dedication of the Pembroke Town Team, who also organised the popular Pembroke Festival earlier this year.

The team expressed gratitude to all contributors, sponsors, and volunteers who helped make the evening a success, ensuring the tradition continues to light up the hearts of Pembroke residents.

(Pics: Martin Cavaney/Herald)

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Second homes restriction expected for new Saundersfoot housing estate

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3 hours ago

November 30, 2024

Bruce Sinclair - Local Democracy Reporter

PLANS for a new estate of 54 homes in a south Pembrokeshire seaside village are expected to get the go-ahead from National Park planners, with a condition restricting 13 properties to not being second homes.

The application for the mixtures of 27 houses and 27 flats/apartments – together with ancillary works – at agricultural land north of Whitlow, Saundersfoot, is made by Morgan Construction (Wales) Limited and Barcud Housing Association.

The application, which includes a mix of 19 affordable properties, meeting the Saundersfoot area requirement for 35 per cent of such properties – is recommended for conditional approval when it comes before Pembrokeshire Coast National Park planners at their September 6 development management committee.

Whitlow plans

No objection to the plans was received by local community council Saundersfoot, other than concerns regarding the possibility of properties being sold as second homes.

Several letters of objection were received, raising concerns including the potential for the new dwellings to become holiday lets, loss of privacy to neighbouring properties, loss of views, and the impact on existing property values.

A report for planners said that there was an assumption that just under 29 per cent of properties in Saundersfoot could be categorised as second homes or holiday lets, which could lead to 71 per cent of the apartments – the most likely to be viewed as suitable for second homes – having a sole or main residence condition on them.

This would mean 13 of the 19 open market apartments would have a ‘C3’ main use condition, separate from the affordable housing requirement.

Agent Evans Banks Planning Limited, in a supporting statement, said a pre-application enquiry to the national park had elicited a positive response, leading to the formal application.

“The proposals have undergone considerable pre-application negotiations and discussions with National Park Authority Officers. It has become apparent that the Authority expect the capacity of the allocation as shown in the LDP to be met in full.

Whitlow plans

“Such an expectation can present challenges if a site also has to be formed over undulating topography and accommodate surface water measures which met future adoption criteria of the Adoption Authority.

“The scheme has evolved from initial concepts where there was an emphasis on a lesser density to reflect the semi-urban/edge of village character of the site.

“To achieve a capacity of 54 units as quoted in the LDP, can only be achieved if residential apartments are introduced, as a significant proportion of the unit type mix. A total of 27 apartments have therefore been introduced in the development to ensure that the remaining 27 dwellinghouses are all afforded sufficient amenity and parking space.”

The application is recommended for approval, with a list of conditions including the ‘C3’ restriction.