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Sandy Bear: Local child bereavement service to shut its doors in June

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sandyA BEREAVEMENT service helping children and young people will close within months, it has been confirmed today.

In a statement a spokesman said for Hywel Dda University Health Board said: “The Sandy Bear Service will end in June 2016 as a commissioned service.

“We continue our work with the county council and other partners to explore new opportunities for bereavement services for children young people and their families.”

The Pembrokeshire-based community service has been working with children aged from 0-18 for 19 years and has been cited as an example of best practice in helping children with unresolved grief issues.
The service has ​two​ funded part-time coordinators and volunteers recruited from health, education and social services.
The development of this service was unique and innovative within Pembrokeshire as research states that by and large the mental health service field had not previously appreciated the impact of loss and bereavement on a child’s emotional health and well-being.
Despite the excellent work being delivered by the service, a post appeared in the Save Essential Services Facebook group from an unimpeachable source stating that the service is definitely to close.
Reactions to the news were appalled.
Samantha-Jane Connor wrote: ​”​Sandy bear helped me when I lost my dad 10 years ago (I was 11) I still even have the teddy they gave me and the memory box that was created! It’s wrong … I think children need this!​”​

Service users, both past and current, were unanimous in their condemnation of the service cut. A check on the County Council’s website revealed that there appeared to have been no discussion of cutting the service with councillors, and the service is not mentioned in the string of cuts to the social services budget rubber-stamped by the County Council’s Cabinet.
As the cut to funding is likely to have an impact on the welfare of a defined group of young people, the Council should have carried out an impact assessment. There is no sign of it having done so.
The Herald asked the local authority to confirm or deny that the services was to close, in a statement which neither confirmed nor confirmed its closure, a spokesperson told The Herald: ​”​Council services provided by the Families First grant – including Sandy Bear – are currently being reviewed following a reduction in funding from the Welsh Government.​”​
Sandy Bear is part of the Council’s Emotional Health and Well Being service commissioned from the Hywel Dda University Health Board.

​”​Tellingly, an online link to information on the county council’s own website no carries the information described on a Google search as being held there.

As the Council’s statement had flagged up the involvement of the Health Board, we approached it for a comment as well. Libby Ryan-Davies, Director of Mental Health and Learning Disabilities, told us: “Hywel Dda University Health Board are working together with Pembrokeshire County Council to review the current provision of Bereavement services in Pembrokeshire as a result of the recent confirmation of Welsh Government funding reduction.
“We are committed to looking at all opportunities to ensure the delivery of evidence-based services, locally.”
Pembrokeshire County Councillor Stephen Joseph joined the online discussion on Thursday (Mar 24), commenting: ‘I have only become aware that funding has been cut to this service through Facebook today. I have spent the morning trying to establish who has made the decision and why it has been made without, it appears, any involvement from any councillors’.
At the time of writing this article, an online petition started by Nina Evans has gathered 2,600 signatures in under forty-eight hours.
Nina’s petition states: “​This is a service that help hundreds of children who have encountered bereavement. They carry out an amazing service supporting children & helping them understand what has happened. I would hate to think what dark place my child would be in now if he had not been lucky enough to have the support from Sandy Bears.

​”​Please help to make Pembrokeshire county council sit up and re-think their decision. As a mother of a child who has suffered a bereavement of a parent I know how difficult it is dealing with grief, so please sign and let others have the support that that my family did.
​”​Fiona Skeate, a former volunteer with the service responding to the petition wrote: ​”​I work with some of the most damaged LAC children in Wales and see first-hand the devastating emotional and psychological impact that bereavement and loss can have on children and young people, both in the immediate and long term.
​”​I volunteered for Sandy Bears a few years ago and have seen first hand the positive difference this kind of support group provides to troubled teens and children as well as providing vital support to families who are having difficulty supporting themselves and are often at a loss as to how best help their children.

​”​Karen and Anita have been able to visit families in their homes to provide immediate guidance and develop a rapport with families.At a later date, children can then share their grief, express feelings and emotions, talk, share memories, carry out therapeutic activities and have pertinent questione answered that in most cases they have previously been unable to do.
​”​Think again and research into the therapeutic value of this kind of intervention before it is too late.”​

 

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HMS Erebus tragedy links Pembroke Dock ship to Templeton family

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DNA breakthrough identifies cabin boy David Young as exhibition marks 200 years since ship’s launch

ON MAY 19, 1845, a handsome 17-year-old boy boarded the Pembroke Dock-built ship HMS Erebus to begin one of the most tortuous and tragic voyages in modern history.

David Young, like all the other crew members around him, was full of excitement and an unquenchable determination that their Arctic expedition would be equally as successful as Erebus’s previous voyage to Antarctica. There, under the leadership of Royal Navy Captain Sir James Clark Ross, the ship smashed through approximately 134 miles of ice to discover the South Magnetic Pole.

David, who served as an Erebus cabin boy, was identified through DNA testing carried out on his skull

This time, led by seasoned polar explorer Sir John Franklin, Erebus’s 69-strong crew was convinced their expedition to the Arctic would uncover that vital sea trading route between the Atlantic and the Pacific Oceans — the Northwest Passage. But what they did not know was that this would turn into one of the most gruesome voyages known to mankind.

So extreme was the crew’s final desperation, the men were forced to resort to cannibalism in temperatures which dropped as low as minus 48C. HMS Erebus, together with her crew, would never return to UK waters.

But now, following the discovery of 14 sets of human remains near King William Island, DNA tests have traced David Young to his great-great-grandnephew, former professional diver Adrian Young, who lives in Templeton, near Narberth.

Adrian Young: With the Arctic Medal, given posthumously to David Young. It was awarded to officers, men, and civilians who took part in expeditions to the Polar Regions between 1818 and 1855

“David was one of 14 human remains that were found at the site, and finally being able to find out just that little bit more about him means so much to me,” Adrian told The Pembrokeshire Herald.

“In my early 20s, when I was doing some archaeological dives on treasure ships in the Scilly Isles, my aunt told me as much as she knew about David Young. And ever since then, I’ve wanted to find out whether there was a family connection.

“David was obviously a very adventurous young man, and I guess this runs in the family. I worked as a professional diver, I was the chief engineer of tugs, and I also once drove a Land Rover all the way to Turkey!”

David, who served as an Erebus cabin boy, was identified by DNA carried out on his skull and, so far, only five crew members have been identified. These include Captain James Fitzjames, whose jawline showed signs of cannibalism.

Built in Pembroke Dock over 200 years ago, Erebus was a Hecla-class bomb ketch measuring 104 feet long, which was less than half the length of a standard man o’ war ship. She took 20 months to build at a cost of £14,603, which equates to £1.25m in today’s money.

Launched from Pembroke Dock in 1826, she embarked on her successful Antarctic expedition and then, on May 19, 1845, sailed from Greenhithe in Kent on Franklin’s quest for the Northwest Passage.

HMS Erebus was both a powerful and luxurious ship, boasting a steam engine and a propeller capable of thrusting the boat at four knots and 25hp. The crew benefited from a heating system and vast supplies of provisions to see them through their expected three-year voyage. These included cattle, sheep, pigs and hens, which were transported on two accompanying supply ships. Erebus also had three pets on board — a monkey given by Lady Franklin, a Newfoundland dog called Neptune, and a cat.

Expedition to the Arctic: Erebus’s crew tasked to uncover a vital sea trading route between the Atlantic and Pacific Oceans

Despite their luxuries, the sailors’ lives, under the zealous eye of Sir John Franklin, were undoubtedly tough. Franklin was an exceptionally focused individual whose aim was to succeed at everything he did. As a result, he pushed his men so hard he earned himself the moniker “the man who ate his boots”. At the age of 59, he was by far the oldest crew member on board HMS Erebus.

The intention was for the ship to overwinter in the ice before continuing to voyage in the spring. But the extreme weather conditions meant there was no thaw, and Erebus was forced to remain in the ice for 19 months. The sailors now found themselves at the mercy of the immense pressure of the sea ice and unpredictable icebergs before HMS Erebus became trapped in the desolate area around Beechey Island. The Inuit rarely visited this region, with the result that the crew could no longer rely on locals for meat, clothing and oil. Temperatures dropped to minus 48C at night and minus 35C by day; even taking off a balaclava could rip the skin and beard from the sailors’ chins.

In a desperate attempt to find water to enable them to move forward, in April 1848, David Young and 13 other crewmen left Erebus, pulling a whaling boat over the frozen sea for approximately 19 miles. This would have been an exceptionally arduous effort for the men, as they had little food and water to retain their energy levels. And despite the freezing temperatures, the men would still have sweated heavily given the weight of the whaling boat; whenever they stopped, the sweat would turn to ice, so it was possible that gangrene may have set in.

Nobody will ever know what finally took David’s life, however, it is likely to have been a combination of starvation, exhaustion and possibly scurvy.

When Erebus went missing, Franklin’s wife put up a hefty £10,000 reward for information, while the Royal Navy offered a £3,000 reward. A total of 36 searches were carried out between 1847 and 1859, with the total number of searches eventually amounting to 52. Erebus was finally located in 2014 by Parks Canada.

“This was massive news, as searches had been going on for so long,” said Adrian.

“And when they dived down, they found the ship was in exceptionally good condition, with most of the artefacts undamaged. This means Erebus is the only surviving ship launched from Pembroke Dock 200 years ago that still survives. So for me, living just a few miles away, it means so very much, particularly knowing that David Young was my great-great uncle.”

Now, to mark the 200th anniversary of the launch of HMS Erebus from Pembroke Dock, the town’s Heritage Centre is hosting a major exhibition celebrating the ship’s extraordinary history. It brings this remarkable international story back to its birthplace, featuring rare artefacts recovered from the wreck, many of which are being shown to the public for the first time, as well as immersive displays, digital interactives, an Arctic diorama and underwater footage from the wreck site.

The exhibition will run from Monday, June 8, until the end of October.

 

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Pembroke Dock driver avoided jail after drug-drive crash

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Court heard she had cocaine metabolite and cannabis above legal limits

A DOCK motorist has narrowly avoided imprisonment after driving into a parked vehicle with what the Crown described as “a cocktail of drugs” in her system.

Stacey Wootton, 30, was seen hitting a parked vehicle the week before Christmas as she drove her Volkswagen Golf along Military Road in Pennar.

“She was seen by a police officer and didn’t seem aware of what was going on,” Crown Prosecutor Sian Vaughan told Haverfordwest Magistrates’ Court this week.

“She appeared to be drugged up and when she got out of the car, she was staggering. She was clearly heavily influenced by the drugs and could hardly speak.”

The officer’s suspicions were confirmed when blood tests carried out at the police station showed that Wootton had 240mcg of the cocaine metabolite benzoylecgonine in her system and 3mg of Delta-9 tetrahydrocannabinol. The legal limits are 50 and 2 respectively.

Traces of ketamine and diazepam were also discovered in her blood, although these were below the legal threshold.

Wootton, of Military Road, Pennar, Pembroke Dock, pleaded guilty to two charges of drug driving.

Given the seriousness of the offences, District Judge Mark Layton requested an all-options probation report prior to sentencing.

“The offence stems from the defendant’s drug misuse issues as a result of the breakdown of her five-year relationship,” said probation officer Julie Norman. “It’s appropriate that some rehabilitation is offered to her to help her through her problem.”

After considering the probation report, District Judge Layton sentenced Wootton to eight weeks in custody, suspended for 18 months. During this time she must carry out 15 rehabilitation activity requirement days.

A 12-month foreign travel prohibition requirement was imposed on her, and she was disqualified from driving for a total of five years. The defendant must also pay a £154 court surcharge and £85 costs.

 

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Dinas Cross man jailed over shop thefts

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Items stolen from Co-op and Tesco stores in North Pembrokeshire

A PROLIFIC shoplifter has been sentenced after being caught stealing items from three food stores in North Pembrokeshire.

The first offence took place on November 22, 2025, when 40-year-old William Lewis walked out of the Co-op supermarket in Fishguard with a four-pack of Peroni beer, valued at £25, without making any attempt to pay.

The following day, he returned to the Co-op and once again helped himself to two more four-packs of Peroni, together with a bottle of red wine, valued at £20.50.

The third offence took place on February 18, 2026, when Lewis was seen walking out of the Tesco supermarket in Goodwick with a shopping trolley full of numerous food items. The value of the stolen goods is unknown.

This week Lewis, of Parc Brynach, Dinas Cross, pleaded guilty to all three theft charges when he appeared before Haverfordwest Magistrates’ Court.

He was sentenced to six weeks in prison and ordered to pay £45.50 compensation to the Co-op supermarket and £60 compensation to Tesco. He must also pay a £154 court surcharge and £85 costs.

 

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